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An Addiction Paradox

When we’re stuck in a rut…

…in any pattern, habit, or addiction…


One way to break out of it is to change our thinking - because:


“You can’t solve a problem using the same kind of thinking that created it” - Einstein


One way to do this is to pull a 180 on our Western, logical, A+B=C thinking by way of a paradox.

In addiction, on The Path, I use this one:


Addiction is predictable

You are unique


What this means is that:


You will have to do recovery like everyone else. There is no way around it. Period. It is totally predictable. Laws of the Universe kind of thing.

And….

You will not do your recovery like anyone else.


Both are true at the same time. 

That’s a paradox. 


It’s not, “So, which one is right? They are opposites, so it has to be either the first or the second.” That’s the thinking that perpetuates a cycle.


Instead, consider, embrace, and investigate, “Hmmm. How can both be right?”


This causes a crack in the cement of thinking that sealed the pattern into place. The light of truth shines in - and in a way we couldn’t have even thought of before.


That’s where we can begin. And then pry that crack wider & wider until the cycle falls apart. 


This works for any place of stuckness, on any subject or situation, whether or not we call it “addiction.” 


Give it a try.  I’d love to know your thoughts ; )


When you change your perception of medicine…

…the Medicine of Perception changes you.


The Path is here to provide the guidance to help you do exactly this.




Check out the other Library entries in this Chapter, specifically for The Premise and 3 Principles, which forms the foundations upon which The Path is built.

With blessings,

Randal



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    1. The Premise: Stop Searching | Start Trusting

    2. An Addiction Paradox

    1. How Did I Get This Way?

    2. Video 1

    3. Video 2

    4. Medicine Journey: To Your Broken Heart

    5. Video 3

    6. Shamanic wRites: My Broken Heart...

    7. Q&A: TAHL...again?!?

    8. Checklist: 3 Big Things

    9. Alchemist's Notebook...for Practitioners

    1. Welcome!

    2. Your Guide to the Shamanic Journey

    3. The Shamanic Journey: Step-by-Step

    4. Just Drums

    5. What's Next?

    1. Table of Contents / Foreword

    2. Sample Chapter: Fire

    3. Water Journey: The Lake of Fear

    1. Lesson #2 Q&A: Acceptable Addiction?

    2. Lesson #13: Experience Changes Belief - Part 1 - It Takes a New Experience to Change an Old Belief

    3. Lesson #14: Experience Changes Belief - Part 2 - When an Addiction Makes Perfect Sense: The Magic Moment

    4. Lesson #17: Reminders....The Power of Denial

    5. Lessons #36-41 | Metal: The Pride of Fatherhood & The Pain of Addiction

    6. Lesson #39: Forgiving Myself

    7. Lesson #47: The #1 Factor for Relapse / Partners: Three Different Types

    8. The Fear of Feeling & the Etiquette of Sorrow

    9. The Space Between

    10. Ready, Prep, Quit! - Part 1: Ready?

    11. Ready, Prep, Quit! - Part 2: Prep

    12. Ready, Prep, Quit! - Part 3: Quit!

    13. Ready, Prep, Quit! - Bonus

    1. Conversations With the Wounded Healer: #055 The Paradox of Addiction

    2. In Conversation...with Director Mark Titus on "The Wild: How Do You Save What You Love?"

    3. In Conversation...with Director Mark Titus on "The Wild: How Do You Save What You Love?

    4. In Conversation...with Buddhist Monk Vince Cullen on Self-Forgiveness

    5. In Conversation....with the Venerable Robina Courtin

    6. Collaboration: Mental Health Professionals

    7. In Conversation...All In: The Addicted Gamblers Podcast

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